Why the New Flinch App is Far From Family Friendly

By on Apr 07, 2015

screen568x568It’s called Flinch and the idea behind this new app echoes an innocent childhood game: Stare at the other person across from you, keep a straight face, and the first person to smile or laugh, loses the match.

Sounds like oodles of fun, right? Not if the other player live- streaming to your phone is a stranger who could be any age, from any country, and say or do anything in the course of this “game.”

Yes, anything thanks to live streaming video and audio.

Let’s be clear, it’s never the app but rather, the bored, mean, seedy people using the apps that take all the fun out of things for everyone else.

The app, which is now being downloaded and applauded by curious teens, is definitely gaining traction as more of a hook-up app. While Flinch features some awesome, advanced facial expression technology (it detects who smiles first and issues a win), my short time using this app sent it straight into the red zone when it comes to family safety.

The app might be okay if a user could do a real-time stare down with only an approved friend list. However, Flinch has the option to either: Play a Friend OR Make a Friend it’s the latter that takes this fun game into the danger zone and opens the doors to instantaneous connection to strangers . . . around the globe.

Other red flags around this app:

  • Random users can track your user name and your location if geo-location is on. That means a user—from anywhere in the world—can locate your child’s school, home, or workplace.
  • Users can easily take screen shots of other users and then essentially use the photos however they wish.Screen Shot 2015-04-01 at 1.40.25 PM
  • Many of the randomized “make a friend” users I encountered while testing the app were men ages 20-40 who appeared to speak very little English. Most were flirtatious. (Go figure—no one wanted to play the staring game).
  • Flinch could be—and by all appearances already is—an easy platform for cyberbullies, predators, or criminals to gain access to targets.

A few of the negative user reviews include:

“Good overall. Just be aware that some people are on there just to be jerks.”

“Great at first. Well I guess it was to be expected that I would see something I did NOT want to see.”

“…of course there will be racist comments, rudeness and etc, not from everyone but from the stupid immature…”

“I was really surprised at how much hatred there is talking face to face with a stranger.”

The iTunes store has this app rated 4+ (meaning it contains no objectionable material), which is clearly misleading. And, it’s Screen Shot 2015-04-01 at 1.40.37 PMcategorized under “Gaming” when it should be a social network, which it clearly is.

Frankly, the instant streaming video of strangers on my iPhone 6-plus screen was acutely creepy. I shudder to think of my teenage daughter meeting some of the characters that came up on my phone. (If you realllly need to see some of the very real screenshots from this app, just type ‘Flinch app’ into the search bar on Twitter. You will get the hodgepodge of users and images that will quickly convince you—kids and teens don’t need this app.

If your teen is using this app take the time to review the red flags and consider, together, the many features that make it a bad idea.

A final reminder: If you want to play the staring game, skip the app and go old school with some face-to-face fun!





Toni Birdsong is a Family Safety Evangelist to McAfee. You can find her on Twitter @McAfee_Family.

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Toni Birdsong

Toni Birdsong began her career as a reporter in Los Angeles and later became a writer for Walt Disney Imagineering. Her passion for digital safety started 10 years ago as a way to gain the survival skills she needed to parent her own connected teenagers. Her goal with each post is to give busy parents ...

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  1. Victoria – I agree. It only took a few minutes of me browsing the app before several adult males popped up on my screen with inappropriate questions and gestures. It's a very risky app not just for teens and anyone else. I personally don't see the use for it outside of a pickup app. Thanks for your comment. 🙂

  2. Flinch is not an appropriate app it needs further filters and a report button if kept on the application store. Grown men are using the app for sexual use to attrack young girls, etc. This app needs to be taken off of all application stores and devices. The creaters need to be notified immediately!

    • The app needs to be removed completely! My 13 year old daughter was solicited from somebody from Iraq asking her to show her body parts to him and then he was going to show her his private body parts get the picture predators! Stay away from this game! She thank goodness was smart enough to come to me and tell me right away and it scared her and I'm glad she realized how bad it was. Just imagine the young girls who don't understand this and what can happen please somebody do something about this!

      • A concerned mom: I'm sorry to hear that happened. It sounds like you've got a smart daughter who trusts your relationship—that is priceless. Unfortunately, these video hookup apps are all the rage. As long as you stay engaged as a parent and keep the lines of communication open, your daughter won't fall into the common danger zones. Keep spreading the word, telling other parents and you will play a significant role in keeping kids safe online. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

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